I’m curious to see what the findings of this reader poll will be. By posting a comment on this post, describe the reason you and your ex broke up. Try to keep it as short. If possible, try to summarize it in a sentence (maybe two) so that it will be easy for me to categorize.
Getting Back Together With Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend
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We broke up cause we had a blow up and I punched the wall a few times. She said she needed time to think about what was best for her because of that situation. I did everything wrong after our breakup,which was 1 month ago,then I bought your book online but she wont talk to me now and I’m following it to a T. Can it work even after allI did wrong?
She ended it in November 09 because she didn’t see us having a future together. That, and the fact that she went to a halloween party a week earlier where her friends said i was ‘fake’ and eventually her ex comforted her and made out with her – I only found this out in feb (3months later). We ended on good terms but i made all the wrong moves (ie getting too close after it ended)…eventually i found out about her infidelity and acted on impulse, trying to find out about the halloween party.
I think that’s what drove her away, though she stays calm when talking to me, i can sense she’s bad mouthing me behind my back. I’ve spent the last few months looking after myself, havn’t spoken to her in 5 weeks…but think im going to stay invisible until her b’day in 4 weeks time. She still hates me, but there’s a thin line between love and hate – and tbh, i havn’t done anything wrong to her (she was the one with infidelity).
Just give it time, and eventually she’ll realise i never was a bad person. (Oh and she has a new bf now – it most likely won’t work in the long term…just a toy boy really).