The Best and Fastest Way to Keep Someone From Leaving You
What is the best and fastest way to keep a man (or a woman) from leaving you?
If you follow these steps, chances are VERY, very strong that your ex will seriously rethink the idea of breaking up with you.
"Jessica" (not her real name) wrote me this question:
My boyfriend has been head over heels about me, but out of nowhere, he told me "I don't want to hurt you, but I don't want a commitment or a relationship at this point in my life."
How many relationships have gone through this scene? A lot!
But here's the good news: this is one of the easiest situations to handle in any relationship if you know what to say and do:
Most important of all: do not argue with him. It won't work. He is telling you the truth and he is probably feeling pressured by your expectations.
Your job is to make him feel suddenly a lot less pressured.
You'll end the pressure by simply not arguing with him AT ALL. This alone will come as a surprise to him.
Now if you're really full of mischief, you could totally turn the tables on him and say, "That's really a relief - I was afraid you were getting too serious about me."
I just love a nice plot twist. And what a difference from dissolving into tears and pleading.
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